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How do public records of our behavior affect us?

Whether I'm getting ready to post on this site, log into facebook, or enter a building with surveillance cameras, I know a "public record" is made of my behavior.  How might this impact me?  You?  Come explore this fascinating idea in the forum discussion.  

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Jennifer Koski replied to Russ Thoman's discussion The Box and a positive mindset
"And why do I so delight in your pain when the Ning gremlins strike? Ha ha - reminds me of the line from Bonds..."Secret glee? Over the bad fortune of another person?" :) :) :) Hey there's your positive mindset (feeling happy when…"
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Russ Thoman replied to Russ Thoman's discussion The Box and a positive mindset
"Isn't this true?  I would speculate it could also be an expression of some other common carry boxes, i.e., the BTB and IDBes."
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Russ Thoman replied to Russ Thoman's discussion The Box and a positive mindset
"Positive mental attitude (Norman Vincent Peale), if I believe it, I'll see it (Wayne Dyer); bringing my positive energy to make something happen in a relationship, etc. IMO, there's only one appropriate use of the box in this forum. The…"
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C. Carbno replied to Sarah Dean's discussion Community Question: How does public record of behavior impact our behavior?
"I suspect that the recording devices may tamper our outward expressions, but that the same dynamics will still be happening on the inside.  Kind of like what happens at a party when a couple are having a big fight -- it may look all friendly on…"
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Jennifer Koski replied to Russ Thoman's discussion The Box and a positive mindset
"Russ, I'm cringing as I write this, but please define "positive mindset" - and also define what you're intending by "The Box" (are you including blissful ignorance in your definition of the box? Distorted seeing in…"
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Sarah Dean replied to Sarah Dean's discussion Arbinger Terminology
"AoP p. 136 "...we construct our boxes through a lifetime of choices"  Every time we choose to pull away from and blame another, we necessarily feel justified in doing so, and we start to plaster together a box of self-justification,…"
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Sarah Dean replied to Sarah Dean's discussion Arbinger Terminology
"AoP p. 90 "When I choose to act contrary to my own sense of what is appropriate, ... I commit ... an act of self-betrayal""
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