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Russ Thoman replied to Russ Thoman's discussion The Box and a positive mindset"Isn't this true? I would speculate it could also be an expression of some other common carry boxes, i.e., the BTB and IDBes."
Russ Thoman replied to Russ Thoman's discussion The Box and a positive mindset"Positive mental attitude (Norman Vincent Peale), if I believe it, I'll see it (Wayne Dyer); bringing my positive energy to make something happen in a relationship, etc.
IMO, there's only one appropriate use of the box in this forum. The…"
C. Carbno replied to Sarah Dean's discussion Community Question: How does public record of behavior impact our behavior?"I suspect that the recording devices may tamper our outward expressions, but that the same dynamics will still be happening on the inside. Kind of like what happens at a party when a couple are having a big fight -- it may look all friendly on…"
Jennifer Koski replied to Russ Thoman's discussion The Box and a positive mindset"Russ,
I'm cringing as I write this, but please define "positive mindset" - and also define what you're intending by "The Box" (are you including blissful ignorance in your definition of the box? Distorted seeing in…"
Sarah Dean replied to Sarah Dean's discussion Arbinger Terminology"AoP p. 136 "...we construct our boxes through a lifetime of choices" Every time we choose to pull away from and blame another, we necessarily feel justified in doing so, and we start to plaster together a box of self-justification,…"
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